Wednesday, 1 January 2014

Our trip to the Desert

We were invited to the desert by Kholoud and Fares Alessa for the day.  You see a lot of desert on your travels around Riyadh so was not sure what to expect. Well what an amazing trip.  

Our friends Bethan and Chris who also came with us did not have a 4 wheel drive and so you can imagine what happened.............. Yes they got stuck in the sand on the way.  Stuck at the top or an enormous sand dune.   Ali advised letting the air out of the tyres as he said this would help getting the car out and also make it easier for the car to manoeuvre on the sand.  After a few pushing from us the car was free and with Ali driving took the car almost vertical down the dune.  Sand is firm to walk and drive on, but when you stop or stand still the sand collapses around you.  So should you be going to desert anytime soon let the air out of your tyres. 

Well finally arrived at the spot where we were going to set up the camp.  The local was in the middle of sand dunes on three sides.  Our hosts set up camp and made tea with served with little sesame seed biscuits.  This was followed by Arabic coffee which I don't like as it is made from cardamom seeds and dates.

The desert sand was a reddy orange in colour and for miles around just sand dunes. The horizon of the sand as it's meets the blue sky was truly beautiful.  When away from our friends sitting on the dunes there is complete silence, not a sound, but your ears seem to be scanning for sound as there is always at anyone time a bird tweeting or some other sound, but in the desert there is nothing, absolutely no sound at all.

After a few hours we packed up and moved to a friend of Ali's Mr Ahmed who had his camel farm nearby.  Ali had arranged with Mr Ahmed for us to have a ride on the camel.  As you can see from the video the camel was not keen to do this. We later found out she was pregnant which was why she was grumpy.

Mr Ahmed made us feel very welcome and we sat with him in the Bedouin tent and had tea and dates.  We were then asked if we would like to try some camel's milk.  Keith had been told by many both Saudi and others that if you drink camels milk it will upset your stomach and just go right through you so you can imagine our reluctance to accept this.  Our hosts said they would have some and so the workers and me in tow went to milk the camel.  I was very lucky to have a go and was blown away by the sheer amount of milk that comes out and the pressure causing the milk to froth.  Having got a huge bowl of milk we went back to the tent.  We were told by Mr Ahmed that when a camel gives birth the milk in the first few weeks the milk is of the highest quality just like human breast milk and should not upset your stomach so not to offend our host Keith, Chris and me all had a taste of the cream which is eaten with the dates dragged through the cream.  I had expected the cream and milk to taste acidic, if fact it was really nice just like cow's milk, but a little more creamy in taste.  Then came the tasting of the milk!  I had only a couple of mouthfuls the same as Chris whereas Keith had two bowls of the stuff and our host and other friends drinking three bowls.  The whole time they were drinking they were teasing Keith about what was going to happen to him later.  Well I can assure you nothing did happen whether it was due to the milk being of a good quality or so fresh we will never know.

As we were leaving we were sprayed by our host with oud.  This is a Saudi tradition.

So it was now time for us to go to a Bedouin tent and for Kholoud, Ali and Fares to cook kabsah.  A tradition Saudi dish of chicken and rice.  Outside the town there are oasis of tents where Saudis can go with their families and camp.  They spend the day there eating and drinking sometimes staying overnight.

The kabsah took about an hour and half to prepare and with ally making bread on the camp fire it was a very enjoyable experience.  The kabsah was delicious and we all sat on the floor and ate from one high large dish in the middle of the floor, eating with your fingers the Saudi way.  Bethan and I eat with a spoon and chris for the first time eat with his fingers and got a lot round it face.  The art if eating with fingers is for the food to be moulded into a ball in the palm of you hand and then flicked into the mouth by the thumb underneath the food.  An art in itself.

Deputy Director of Nursing

Well I am feeling rather pleased with myself!  I have been very fortunate to have been offered three jobs: deputy director of nursing, nursing service manager and director of nursing (lucky girl).  After a lot of consideration I have accepted the deputy director of nursing and have successfully negotiated my contract resulting in an additional 50,000 SARS a year housing allowance!!!!!

Just need to sign the contract, get the results from my medical, which should be tomorrow and then should be ready to start at the end of January.

Wednesday, 18 December 2013

Disaster in the kitchen

Not a good day.  Went out for the afternoon and completely forgot that I had put on a pan of water with two cans of condensed milk in.  I was turning the condensed milk into caramel for a banoffee pie. Keith came home two hours later to find the house filled with black smoke and the cans had exploded.  He was not in a good mood when I got home especially as he had to clean up the mess. :(


A day at the Granada mall funfair was brilliant. Two big kids riding the roller coaster and the water log ride. Funfairs which are normally outside in the UK are inside the shopping malls on the top floors. They have everything bumper cars, whirlizer, carousel, roller coaster. The only think they don't seem to have is the Ferris wheel.







Wednesday, 4 December 2013

Monday 26th November - Diamonds are forever

Went to Kuwaiti Souk to dip my signet ring in white gold.  Muhammad allowed me to try on some diamonds to see what they looked like.  I have never seen so many diamonds cut in so many shapes they don't even look real, but believe me they are.  The ring equates to £2,000. Didn't even ask how much the necklaces were.

First wedding anniversary coming up soon! Hint, hint Lol! I know it's paper..................





Who said you can't buy a Christmas Tree?

I couldn't believe that we would be able to buy a Christmas Tree and decorations in Riyadh.  Keith found this little shop full of things for Christmas including the foil ceiling decorations and garlands made of tissue paper.  And there I was thinking we would decorate an indoor plant with a few bits of tinsel we brought with us from the UK. Just goes to show Aallah looks after all his people when in Saudi.






28th November 2013

Well I have now been in the land of sand for 2 weeks and the sun is finally shining. 

I have been out on my own twice without Keith lol.  I got on the compound bus and went shopping to the malls, Hyatt and then to Kingdom mall.  I have never seen so many designer shops and western clothing for women.  Seems to be little clothing for men when approx 4 million of the population of Kingdom of Saudi Arabia (KSA) are men who only wear western clothes.

Despite being so far away the world is such a small place! Just 3 houses down live a couple called Fiona and Paul Rizzardi.  Fiona used to work for Surrey Community Health as a staff nurse at the Jarvis centre and then in the breast screening clinic.  Fiona attended the University of Surrey and Melaine Coward was her personal tutor and then to top it all Fiona and Paul attended Pam Frost's wedding. Amazing!!!

I have been offered a deputy director of nursing post at the King Saud University Medical City (KSUMC),  but who knows whether it will be followed up with a contract who even a job description and even then it's going to take sometime for my igama (residency) to be transferred from Keith's company to KSUMC which may result in me returning to the UK for many weeks.  I have told this could take as long as 3 months.  The recruitment process is very different here and not something I am used to. 

I have also been interviewed for a service manager in a rehab hospital in the middle of the desert managing 4 clinical managers and responsible for 104 beds.  Said they will let me know in a week, but too far to go each day by taxis 48 kilometres each way at a cost of 60 SARS each way ( 6 SARS to a £).

Looking forward to starting work and the huge learning curve I will experience with the culture and the different way health care is delivered.  Looking forward to putting in place visiting lecturers so watch out some of you may be getting an all expenses trip to KSA.  Very exciting! :)

I am learning about Islam and women so that I have a better understanding of what is expected of a Muslim woman.  Today I found out you woman shouldn't wear nail polish as a woman cannot perform Wadu (ablution) for prayers as water cannot penetrate the nail polish and so you are unclean.  Interestingly a company have produce breathable nail polish which lets air and water through to the nails.  Its called O2M (Oxygen and Moisture) so problem solved for all Muslim women.  For my next lesson .......................... only kidding unless you found it as fascinating as me.

We were invited to Keith's boss house Tony's for tea and I met his wife Vivienne.  Really nice couple.  They have a rescue dog called Dudley who is so sweet and gentle spent the whole time on my lap.  No I am not having a dog.............. Need to wait once I have started work and then we will see. 

Have started doing my decoupage again and have even found that Jariri bookshop sell the paper mâché shapes which is great and so much cheaper than the UK just need to source the decopatch paper here and I'm in business.  Have been asked to show someone how to do this so maybe could start some classes up.  knitting has not come out of the cupboard so not that bored yet and as for being a housewife! I don't think so lol

Went to Kuwaiti souk last night and got the opportunity to try on some jewellery for fun.  Didn't like the pieces, but was nice of Muhammad to allow me to do this.  Diamonds everywhere and so many different cuts of diamonds you just can't believe they are real.  Just mind blowing. 

Anyone wanting any shopping done just let me know.  Easier if you send a picture of what you would like and I can then have a look and send you a picture of what I find which is similar and the cost.  Some of Keith's friends from the UK who also work here come back to the UK on a regular basis so no problem in getting your items to you.

Well that's it for now. Will write again soon.